Well, I just can't stop myself from throwing this is to the mix... My kids are in school now but I plan to homeschool as soon as we get our house. I am sick to death of all the crap that comes with having my kids in public school. My oldest was recently diagnosed autistic, high functioning, but none the less a serious challenge is daily life for this kid.
1st grade, he had a great teacher, she really worked with him and found ways to help him succeed. Last year? Lame teacher, poor kid got worse, did worse and a real stigma got attached to him. It was utterly heartbreaking. This year, great teacher, wonderful, not only works with him but strongly advocates for him. We love her to pieces... but who's he going to get next year? And next? And what about jr high etc?
This kid NEEDS social skills, I am very aware of this. I really feel that school is the exact wrong place for him to try and get them. He needs group therapy designed for kids with his type of challenges, he needs coaching through daily interaction, he needs near one on one instruction. Absolutely there is a need for more, for a real peer group. I have looked into this and there is a home schooling network in my area. The families get together for trips to museums and outings, sports and excersize etc. There is also the option of his attending school part time and homeschooling part time.
For me it has nothing to do with isolation and everything to do with providing my son an educational atmosphere where he can succeed. My kids are both very focused, and are already complaining about not being allowed to really get into a subject as much as they desire. The teachers are always moving on to the next thing and it drives even my kindergartener crazy. I already have a lot of at home research going on so they can get all the info they want. Socialization will be a high priority in their education, so will not killing their love of learning.
peace,
Witch
